Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Maya's Birth (written by her mommy, Pria)

I had my wonderful daughter, Maya, on February 8th at 9lbs, 4ozs, 21". Thanks to utilizing Whitney as my doula, the birth experience surpassed my hopes and expectations.

When I had my son 10 years ago at 30, my labor was 21 hours and I ended up with Pitocin, an epidural, episiotomy, vacuum, and forceps. I was very "cooked" after and didn't even feel confident in holding my son, much less breast-feed right away. My memories are also tainted of the immediate post-birth time. I wasn't alert and "present." My son ended up with severe Jaundice and was back in the hospital after just a day at home to be under the lights while I pumped and fed constantly. It was my third day of no sleep.

My labor with Maya was 7 hours and Whitney coached me throughout. If Whitney and my husband didn't take turns working on my lower back during contractions, I can't imagine making it without drugs. Whitney in particular had a special back pressure technique that helped a lot. When I thought I couldn't take the next phase while my contractions were getting closer and closer, Whitney encouraged me and informed me about what to expect next. She provided knowledge and emotional support that a hubby wouldn't know to do! The feedback on my sounds and breathing were valuable. At one point, she crawled behind me in a chair to rub my back during contractions, and I would rest leaning against her, which was very comforting.

I can't believe I made it through the delivery without drugs to deliver such a big, healthy baby. Immediately after delivery, I was very alert, along with Maya, who nursed right away. I have clear memories of the moments leading to her birth and after that I will treasure forever, thanks to Whitney. Maya didn't have Jaundice, which I attribute partly to having been able to nurse right away.

My husband was also relived to have Whitney there and I'm sure he felt less pressure and was able to enjoy the experience more. She was able to reassure him as well, when he thought I might not be able to make it without drugs! She offered him tips, such as the position he took when Maya was born - he was behind me, supporting me, which was wonderful as it made us feel he was participating in her birth more, and was not a spectator. He could see her emerge in the mirror along with me and support my back.

We are both very happy with our birth experience and have great memories, thanks to Whitney. We are glad to have utilized Whitney and highly recommend her for your birth.